The hermit crab looks for a shell that fits him, then lives in it until he outgrows it.
To develop and grow spiritually, you must be willing to move out of your comfort zone and deal with a little distress. What worked for you yesterday, might not work today.
Never become so settled, that you can’t move on, when you know you need to.
Patience and hard work are admirable but they won’t work in situations that you have outgrown. Instead of hanging in and trying harder, at certain points you have to ask yourself, “Is this situation good for me?”
If you are not sure, ask God for an understanding mind to understand the difference between right and wrong. James 1:5